Rediscover your truth, clarity and freedom.
My coaching is for thoughtful, open‑minded people whose lives look rich on paper but do not feel quite so rich within.
You may have learned to shape your dreams and choices around what feels safe, acceptable or expected. Deep down, you know that a life governed by those limits will never feel fully your own.
You already have what it takes to live in alignment with what is true for you. My role as your coach is to guide you back towards that knowing—and towards the life you already sense is yours.
You’ve noticed something feels off
A decision
you keep leaving unresolved.
A pattern
you know no longer serves you, but still repeat.
A life that works on paper
while your soul asks for something else.
Having lived openly as a gay man for more than a decade, I recognise the patterns of adaptation many of us learn when acceptance is not guaranteed. Editing yourself can begin to feel safer than showing up whole. Over time, that adaptation can shape your work, relationships, confidence and sense of self.
The circumstances differ, but the human pattern is wider: we learn to become safe, acceptable or successful, then realise that only part of us is living.
My lived experience as a gay man openly shapes this work. My practice is open to people of every sexuality and gender who connect with this approach. What matters is a willingness to be open, honest and to meet others as equals.
Come as you are. This work is about becoming more fully yourself.
The work
Face what is true.
Accept what is.
Move beyond what limits you.
Live more freely.
That is the core of my coaching. We begin by seeing clearly how you arrived here and what continues to shape your choices. From there, we separate what is genuinely aligned with you from what is being driven by fear, inherited beliefs, habit or other people’s expectations.
Through close listening and direct questioning, I help you turn that clarity into movement towards what you already sense is right.
The beauty of this work is that you do not have to postpone wholeness until you reach the next target. You can move towards what matters while remaining present enough to experience the life happening now.
This is presence in action: not motivational theatre or forced positivity, but truth and authenticity expressed through the choices you make and the life you live.
This is life on your terms, unmistakably you.
Me? Here’s how I got here.
I’m a qualified life coach, PGA Professional and founder of LGBT Golf, based in London. I graduated with Distinction from Kingstown College’s Advanced Diploma in Mental Health & Wellbeing Coaching.
On paper, those worlds may look different. To me, the essential work has always been the same: helping people see clearly, trust themselves and live in fuller alignment with who they are.
From my teenage years onwards, I have explored authenticity, awareness, presence and Taoist philosophy—not as distant ideas, but as a lived practice. I have also come to understand the tension between ambition, achievement and presence.
To me, success is a life that not only looks good from the outside but feels true from within.
Founding LGBT Golf grew from the same belief that guides my coaching: people blossom and perform more freely when they express who they are rather than edit themselves.
What clients say
“My session with Gary gave me a sense of clarity that I couldn’t find elsewhere.”
Oliver
Private coaching
Private coaching begins as a focused three-month relationship, with six private 60-minute sessions usually held fortnightly, online or in person in London.
This gives us enough time to move beyond immediate insight, recognise deeper patterns and turn what emerges into sustained change.
Fee: £1,200
Payable in full or in three interest-free monthly instalments of £400.
Begin with a private 25-minute consultation: a straightforward conversation about what has brought you here, what you want to be different and whether working together feels right. There is no charge and no obligation to proceed.
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