I help you understand yourself, make clearer decisions and live in a way that feels true to you.
Together, we explore your life, relationships and choices, what may be keeping you stuck and the next steps you want to take.
25 minutes online to meet me and see if we’re a match.
60 minutes online. No programme commitment.
Begin with one session
You do not need a perfectly defined goal. Bring a decision, a recurring pattern or a sense that something needs attention.
We begin with what is most present for you. Through close listening and direct questions, we explore what is shaping it, what matters to you and what your next honest step might be.
60 minutes · Online · £75
A complete coaching session, with no obligation to continue. If further support would be useful, additional sessions are £75 each, arranged at a pace we agree together.
25 minutes online to meet me and see if we’re a match.
60 minutes online. No programme commitment.
You’ve noticed something feels off
A decision you keep leaving unresolved.
A pattern you know no longer serves you, but still repeat.
A life that works on paper while your soul asks for something else.
You may have learned to shape your dreams and choices around what feels safe, acceptable or expected. Over time, that adaptation can become so familiar that it is difficult to tell what genuinely belongs to you and what has been placed upon you.
Editing yourself can begin as intelligence. It can help you remain safe, accepted or successful. The difficulty begins when the edit outlives the need for it and quietly becomes your way of living.
My lived experience as a gay man shapes the freedom I protect in this work, but it does not limit who it is for. I welcome people of every sexuality and gender who connect with this approach.
Come as you are. Nothing has to be performed here.
The work
Face what is true.
Accept what is.
Move with what becomes clear.
You do not need to be improved into somebody else. My role is to help you see what is shaping your life, loosen what limits it and allow your next choices to come more fully from you.
We begin one layer before goals: seeing clearly how you arrived here, what continues to shape your choices and which desires genuinely belong to you.
Through close listening and direct questioning, I help you stay with what becomes visible, distinguish what comes from fear, habit, inherited beliefs or other people’s expectations and turn that clarity into honest movement.
Presence is not passivity. When you stop escaping what is, your next honest action becomes clearer.
This is life on your terms, unmistakably you.
What clients say
“My session with Gary gave me a sense of clarity that I couldn’t find elsewhere.”
Oliver
Me? Here’s how I got here.
I’m a qualified life coach, PGA Professional and founder of LGBT Golf, born and raised in the Irish Midlands and now based in London. I completed Kingstown College’s Advanced Diploma in Mental Health & Wellbeing Coaching with Distinction.
My route through coming out, business, golf and years of meditation may look unusual from the outside. From within, each chapter has led towards the same work: helping people see what shapes them, loosen what limits them and live less edited.
I believe much of what we call change is not improvement at all, but the freedom to become more fully expressed.
A place to begin.
One private 60-minute session to explore what matters to you. Online, £75, with no commitment beyond that session.
25 minutes online to meet me and see if we’re a match.
60 minutes online. No programme commitment.